James....let me share with you why some may feel a "little" differently then you....lets use a analogy O.K.?
Let us just say the Jehovah's Witnesses is a resturante O.K....you know, like the place they serve food, (they think it's spiritual)...but whatever...
You go there and eat but don't care much for the food ....so you decide not to eat there....anymore....and leave not coming back...Fine.
You now meet other people who ate at the same resturante........for years...these people have had a different experience....they get sick...the cook there kills there mother ....their daughter got molested in the bathroom....They leave the resturante....but the rest of their family stay in the place and get sicker....in fact the food makes them crazy....so crazy they actually forget their real family and friends and they start to shun them...They in fact lose their WHOLE family....to this poison they call food..
Now you come along with your tooth pick your month and tell them...."get over it and quit whinning"
Tell me James, what all did you loose after leaving "The Borg"